Ari would have been 33 tomorrow.
She was my daughter in law and left us in May from an accidental overdose.
She mixed over the counter medicine with her own. Sleeping pills mostly.
My son moved in with me and is in a depression. They were married 7 years and very much in love.
Both of them had mental illness to deal with but for the life of me I do not know where our mental health system is, this rich country with all the answer (so they tell us) has very few answers and ways to get mental health restored. Not enough places to go when you do not have the money, not enough clinics to keep you should you need prolonged help.
Ari had her master degree in psychology but could not help herself. My son suffers from panick disorder and agorophobia.We had to drug him for the trip back home.
Ari will be remembered by many. For years she worked in group homes and helped hundreds of people, she went to Raleigh to get financial help for them, she was a fighter in a system which is inadequate. There were times the group home did not have enough money for groceries and she would feed them out of her own pocket.
An only child left her mother in so much grief that she too left us with a major heart attack. She was 56.
I am concerned over my son 's well being during the days which no doubt will remind him of what he lost, again and again.
I miss her, I was a second mother to her. She was always very kind and loving to me. At her age she did more for humanity than most of us will do in a long lifetime.
Rest Ari, rest and watch over B.