I am amazed that I get feedback from this blog. I started it to just let the family know where we are, yet this somehow mushroomed into readers who have the same situation at home.
They relate or I hear about other "help" which may work for me too.
Having said all that, I want to forget the last 2 days.
Bob was mostly out of total reality and very unpleasant.
It was my day off and I wanted to run to the safety of my small office at Steinmart.
SO no elaboration , I can't rethink these days and hope today is better.